A Dream Life Style梦想的生活方式

I received a letter from my good friend, Jessie today from internet. She told me that she is in Macao now, and she feels like she has been retired and feels so relaxed. I can understand her feeling accurately, for I also spent similar time with her too. She has been too hard working for a too long time, same like the time I turned to study from 6 years continuous work. About retirement, I would like to say, I also want to be in a status of retirement. Maybe, this is a signal that I am not young already. Anyway, it is really a wonderful thing for me to do a small business, like a coffee shop, a bar, a small specialized restaurant, a handicraft workshop, a landlord of a house, or a professional, going to work for several days of a month and the other days is left for husband and children. An ideal living mode it is indeed. But the realistic life shows me another road to follow… At this time, I remember a famous sentence, it is said that the strong does what want to do, and the weak does what must do. I would like to be strong, and I have to…
今天收到我的好朋友jessie的来信，信中提到她现在呆在澳门，整个状态很放松就像是退休了一样。我很理解她，我也曾经经历了这种情绪和状态的改变。她过去的十几年太努力工作了，放弃了很多享受生活的机会，那种放松下来的感受如同我连续工作了6年，转头重新开始学习一样。关于退休，我早有体会。也许，从另一个方面来说，我已经不年轻了。但是，想来，如果我能有一份属于自己的小生意，也是非常惬意的事情。作一个咖啡店的老板娘，或者只是个小bar，特色的小饭店，或者自己经营一个手工作坊，只是当个房产的房东，成天收房租，或者去作自由职业者，一个月工作几天，剩下的时间都在家相夫教子。多么理想的生活状态啊… 不知道现实生活会把自己带到那里。突然间，我想起一句名言，“强者做所想之事，弱者做必做之事”, 我想坚强起来作个强者，我必须…